I am so sorry that you have to keep that thing on your head all the time. I know it's not very comfy. I hope you will know that we are doing this for you. I want you to know that we did everything that we could to make you happy with your appearance. You were/are perfect to me regardless. These few months will be like nothing in the long run. You won't even remember them. I hate that you sweat so much in the helmet. I wish I could put a little fan in it to help you cool down. You are getting so big now, mister almost 8 month old. I can't believe it. Your newborn pictures make me sad because you have changed so much since then. Such a big guy. You are the youngest out of the 3 cousins and you are the biggest! You could probably mess with Kali if you would learn how to crawl! I just want you to know that I promise I'm not torturing you when I put that weird blue thing on your head. Maybe you will even thank me in the long run. I love you so much chunk!
Forever,
Momma
Breathe...
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Our Day
We were about 20 minutes late for our appointment. We had a monkey themed room, tons of monkeys every where!
Then we had a check up with the doctor that saw Hunter for his first examination. We freaking walked up and down the street in the cold ass wind. Stupid us, while it was warm here at home, it is freezing in the bay area. Steven had him in shorts and a polo, we had to cover him with a blankey. First, we went to the wrong building (even though his card said that address). Had to walk all the way back down the street finally we find the right place. Turns out he thought he would have had the helmet for a few weeks now so there wasn't much to talk about. Pretty much a WASTE OF TIME, ugh. Overall, it was a tiring day. I hate making him sit in the car seat for so long. But he did great. We will see how well he does with the helmet tomorrow.
Then we had a check up with the doctor that saw Hunter for his first examination. We freaking walked up and down the street in the cold ass wind. Stupid us, while it was warm here at home, it is freezing in the bay area. Steven had him in shorts and a polo, we had to cover him with a blankey. First, we went to the wrong building (even though his card said that address). Had to walk all the way back down the street finally we find the right place. Turns out he thought he would have had the helmet for a few weeks now so there wasn't much to talk about. Pretty much a WASTE OF TIME, ugh. Overall, it was a tiring day. I hate making him sit in the car seat for so long. But he did great. We will see how well he does with the helmet tomorrow.
Crappy cell pictures, but pictures none the less.
Sunday, May 8, 2011
Mother's Day!
Mine was okay. Steven pissed me off but at least I got to spend it with my boy. I am not mad that I didn't get a gift or a card but he could have at least spent the day with us. It made me feel like I am not appreciated. My mom got me some yellow roses and a card. I made her a card with a picture of me and Hunter in it. She loved it and she told me she cried. I still need to make something for Lydia, Steven's mom. We go to pick baby's helmet up on Tuesday. I'm anxious to get it because I just want to get this over with. I haven't talked to my dad in a while. I wonder if he's still in treatment. I kind of doubt it. Maybe I will text my aunt and see.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
A much needed update
Still waiting to hear from the doctor about Hunter's helmet. Hopefully we get a call soon.. My dad is in a treatment center right now, we'll see how long that lasts. I sent out Hunter's Easter cards last week, everyone loved them. I can't believe my baby is so big. I look at his newborn pictures and I can't believe how much he's changed. Pretty soon I'll be planning his first birthday party. We might take him to the playground today, his first time! It's a nice day today so we will see. I got my cloth diapers the other day, I love them. Hunter looks so cute in them too. No leaks so far, knock on wood! It feels good knowing that I'm not putting chemicals on my little man's butt. Steven thinks it's dumb and 'hippie-ish' but I don't care. Maybe he will understand once he doesn't have to buy diapers every few weeks.
Little Mister was crying after his bath |
Today |
Friday, April 15, 2011
What a day
It has been a very long day. It felt like we were in the car forever. We made the trip to SF to get Hunter fitted for his helmet. He did so good but was still kinda grumpy during the casting, I don't blame him. The doctor said we should get the helmet back within 2-4 weeks. Yet another trip all the way down to the bay area. Just have to keep reminding myself that it's for a good reason. My son deserves it. He did well with the car ride too, until the end. I didn't want to be in the car anymore either, ugh. So if Medi-Cal doesn't cover it the grand total will be $2280 not including gas, food, and bridge fair. The doctor did say that with the measurements, it's a good chance that they will cover it. Still hoping!
It has been a very long day. It felt like we were in the car forever. We made the trip to SF to get Hunter fitted for his helmet. He did so good but was still kinda grumpy during the casting, I don't blame him. The doctor said we should get the helmet back within 2-4 weeks. Yet another trip all the way down to the bay area. Just have to keep reminding myself that it's for a good reason. My son deserves it. He did well with the car ride too, until the end. I didn't want to be in the car anymore either, ugh. So if Medi-Cal doesn't cover it the grand total will be $2280 not including gas, food, and bridge fair. The doctor did say that with the measurements, it's a good chance that they will cover it. Still hoping!
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Before |
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During |
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Using my phone as a distraction |
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After, my poor guy! |
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And on our way home :) |
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Day in the bay
So we went and saw a specialist today about the baby's head. We had to go all the way to San Francisco. The Dr.'s said that the shape could be from the way he was positioned in my body, he favored that one side for the first few months of his life (I should've started turning his head then), and because his skull is still soft. Thankfully, there are no problems with his brain, it's perfect! They gave us two options, 1. We use techniques and pretty much keep him off the flatter side of his head using toys, blankets, etc. This could work but it's not a for sure thing. Or 2. We get him a helmet. He has to wear this 23 hours a day for 3 months. Yeah, THREE months. This will be a more effective solution because it allows his head to grow in certain parts and round out. If Medi-Cal doesn't cover it, it will cost around $2000-$2500 out of pocket. Steven's mom said they would cover it. My mom said between his parents and mine that they will figure it out. I would feel extremely guilty if they did though. I'm hoping that the Medi-Cal will cover it. The doctor said it's either one or the other, we can't do both. He pretty much told us that we had to make a decision right then and there because once he turns a year old his head shape won't change much. But, he did say we could try the techniques for 6 weeks and see if we noticed a change and then do the helmet. That would be 6 weeks wasted if it doesn't improve. We got the prescription for the helmet and we have to go to another doctor to get him fitted and everything. That doctor couldn't get us in today so we have to go all the way to San Francisco again. It's stressful but he's all worth it. I'm about 99% sure we are going through with the helmet, it will be new and different but we will get through it the best we can. My baby deserves it and it will be great for him in the long run.
Here are some pics from our day.
Here are some pics from our day.
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Let's hit the road |
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"Give me that!" |
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Breakfast time! |
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Getting close |
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Through the tunnel |
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Going across the bridge |
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Wearing a Fireman's hat in the waiting room |
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View from our room |
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First time in a shopping cart (Ew, made sure to wipe it down and put blankets in) |
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Chewing on Dada's string |
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Little baby feetsies! |
Sunday, March 27, 2011
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